90 Day Fiance: Lisa Babygirl Hamme & Usman’s Relationship Timeline

Lisa “Babygirl” Hamme and Usman “Sojaboy” Umar from 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season four had a volatile romance, and we’re here to share their dramatic relationship timeline. The pair clashed over cultural differences, trust issues, and a wide age gap. Plenty of problems plagued their rocky relationship. From start to finish, there was major turbulence.

Lisa and Usman met through a mutual friend who was from the UK. Lisa reluctantly agreed to message Usman. She was hesitant at first, fearing that he was a scammer looking to make money off of her. However, she did decide to give him a chance. They started talking three years ago. Back then, Lisa was 49-years-old and Usman was 29-years-old. The Pennsylvania native Lisa eventually got into a committed relationship with the Nigerian Usman.

Fans watched as Lisa visited Usman in Nigeria during 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. These viewers felt that Lisa quickly began to disrespect Usman’s culture. She complained about everything, from his family to Usman’s rap career as Sojaboy to their accommodations. Viewers doubted that Lisa and Usman would ever make it down the aisle, but Usman eventually got down on one knee and proposed to Lisa. He did so even though that is not part of Nigerian tradition.

After hearing pleas and receiving gifts, Usman’s mother finally gave her blessing, saying that the pair could marry. They were wed in an intimate ceremony in Nigeria. The pair were together as of the end of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. However, soon after, fans discovered that they had actually split in May of 2020, and had been estranged for months. Lisa accused Usman of cheating on her. Usman served Lisa with divorce papers after the show ended, but Lisa refused to sign them at first.

In the Tell-All reunion episode for Before the 90 Days season four, Usman revealed that Lisa had used racial slurs against him. The pair seemed destined to fail, right from the beginning. They also seem to have bad blood after ending their relationship. Both acted bitter throughout the remainder of 2020. Usman started moving on by focusing on his music career. He won a City Magazine award for Artist of the Year.

Lisa and Usman eventually moved after the divorce, with Usman reaching out to 90 Day Fiancé alum, Brittany Banks, and Lisa making fans think she had found a new man. Lisa announced in April of 2021 that she was married again, to “her best friend.” Lisa and Usman had several ups and downs during their relationship and on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. Now, they both seem to be thriving after their breakup.

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